Policies and Expectations
Confidentiality
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Confidentiality is Head Mistress’ top priority.Head Mistress believes in discretion and will keep your identity confidential. If there is a point within your dynamic with Her that you learn about Her identity, She EXPECTS you to keep anything you learn about Her confidential. If you disclose anything you learn about Head Mistress without permission, she will immediately end any contact with you and may communicate with the community that you are unsafe.
Respect
Expected anytime you interact with Head Mistress. Head Mistress has a right to cancel at anytime when disrespected. Head Mistress will respect your limits.
Communication and Trust
If you are seeking a long term dynamic with Head Mistress, She Expects honest communication. This will assist in building trust and a more cohesive relationship. If there is not honest communication, this may be terms for Head Mistress to end the relationship.
Consent
Consent will be asked for at the beginning of any scene. If Head Mistress feels you are under the influence of alcohol or drugs at the beginning of the scene or during a break in a scene, She will not start the scene or continue it. There will be check-ins throughout a long scene to ensure consent still exists.
If the dynamic is long-term, there will be regular check ins which will consist of at the least twice a month. (The check-ins may be more often.)
Head Mistress has the right to consent as well. She may not start the scene or she may decide to end a scene atanytime.
In- person sessions
50 % due within 5 days from the scheduled session. Only 10% will be refunded if canceled within 3 days from the scheduled session otherwise there will be NO refund. The rest of the amount will be due 8 hours before the scheduled session otherwise the session will be canceled without a refund.
Video sessions
Full amount is due a day before the scheduled session otherwise the session will be cancelled.
Items
Shipping and handling will need to be paid for on top of original amount by the buyer before the item is shipped.
Words of Wisdom
Confidentiality
If it’s not your story to tell, you don’t tell it.
~ Iyanla Vanzant
Connection
I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgement; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship
~ Brene’ Brown
Privilege
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.
~ Carl Jung